#1
Conflict Resolution Spread
Get insight into a situation that you just can't seem to resolve. Focus on a conflict with a specific person or organization, then click to turn over each card.
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Card #1 represents your role in this conflict.
You've drawn the Reversed Emperor card. This means you're getting a reversed version of Authority energy, so it's manifesting as Domination and shows up looking like use of force, controlling, rigidity, inflexibility. So that's what you're bringing to the table. Take a moment to think about these qualities and the ways in they're working for or against you in resolving this conflict.
#2
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Card #2 represents your view of them.
You've drawn the Eight of Cups which has a theme of Unfulfilled and shows up in concepts like walking away, new direction, no turning back, burning bridges. If you take off your conflict goggles for a moment, do you still think this is a fair assessment of who thay actually are? Take a moment to think about ways in which your feelings about these concepts are contributing to the resolution or the continuation of the conflict.
#3
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Card #3 represents their view of themselves.
You've drawn the Reversed Strength card. This means you're getting a reversed version of Fortitude energy, so it's manifesting as Weakness and shows up looking like self-doubt, egoism, lack of self-discipline, suppressed urges. We rarely see ourselves the same way others do -- especially when we're in conflict -- and that's part of what's going on here. Take a moment to think about how your partner's view of themself is influencing the resolution or the continuation of the conflict.
#4
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Card #4 represents what they mean to you.
You've drawn the Reversed Page of Cups card. This means you're getting a reversed version of Creative Beginnings energy, so it's manifesting as Emotional and shows up looking like oversensitive youth, repressed intuition, refusing good advice. Take a moment to think about how this larger view of their role in your relationship together will be important in helping you move towards resolving your current conflict.
#5
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Card #5 represents what you mean to them.
You've drawn the Reversed Five of Pentacles card. This means you're getting a reversed version of Poverty energy, so it's manifesting as Perseverance and shows up looking like change for the better, renewed hope, finding employment. Regardless of conflict, your partner is seeing you as an embodyment of those qualities in this relationship. Take a moment to think about how your partner sees you in this relationship and how that may be contributing to their ability to resolve this current conflict with you.
#7
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Card #7 represents relationship strengths.
You've drawn the Fool which has a theme of New Beginnings and shows up in concepts like innocence, journey, spontaneity, free spirit, change. Even though you're currently having a conflict with your partner and you've got some obstacles to face, it's nice to know you've got some strengths in your relationship too. Let this strength theme simmer a bit, then see if you can flex it to move toward resolution with your partner.
#8
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Card #8 represents possible outcome.
You've drawn the Reversed Death card. This means you're getting a reversed version of Transformation energy, so it's manifesting as Stuck and shows up looking like depression, unable to move on or recover. So here's the deal with the outcome: it's based on your current path. You have the choice to stay the course or to work for change. You may like this outcome, or you may not. But remember, it's not set in stone. You and your partner have the power to resolve your conflict in whichever way suits you and hopefully you've gained some insight on how to do that together and with grace.
#6
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Card #6 represents relationship obstacles.
You've drawn the Reversed Eight of Swords card. This means you're getting a reversed version of Restriction energy, so it's manifesting as Release and shows up looking like mental liberation, clear thinking, renewed initiative. You're going to have relationship obstacles. It's best to know what you're dealing with. Sometimes the obstacles indicated here clear, but other times you'll need to look beneath the surface of the theme to find a true source. Do you and your partner both see this theme as an obstacle? If not, that might be your first clue in moving towards resolution.