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Conflict Resolution Spread

Get insight into a situation that you just can't seem to resolve. Focus on a conflict with a specific person or organization, then click to turn over each card.

Card #1 represents your role in this conflict.

You've drawn the Nine of Pentacles which has a theme of Luxury and shows up in concepts like affluence, stability, security, prosperity, self reliance. So that's what you're bringing to the table. Take a moment to think about these qualities and the ways in they're working for or against you in resolving this conflict.

Card #2 represents your view of them.

You've drawn the Five of Wands which has a theme of Conflict and shows up in concepts like battles, bickering, pettiness, discord, squabbles. If you take off your conflict goggles for a moment, do you still think this is a fair assessment of who thay actually are? Take a moment to think about ways in which your feelings about these concepts are contributing to the resolution or the continuation of the conflict.

Card #3 represents their view of themselves.

You've drawn the Page of Wands which has a theme of Enthusiasm and shows up in concepts like opportunity, high energy, passion, creativity. We rarely see ourselves the same way others do -- especially when we're in conflict -- and that's part of what's going on here. Take a moment to think about how your partner's view of themself is influencing the resolution or the continuation of the conflict.

Card #4 represents what they mean to you.

You've drawn the Four of Swords which has a theme of Recuperation and shows up in concepts like recovery, retreat, de-stress, solitude, time out. Take a moment to think about how this larger view of their role in your relationship together will be important in helping you move towards resolving your current conflict.

Card #5 represents what you mean to them.

You've drawn the Reversed Two of Swords card. This means you're getting a reversed version of Stalemate energy, so it's manifesting as Mixed Information and shows up looking like mixed emotions, difficult decisions, wrong conclusions. Regardless of conflict, your partner is seeing you as an embodyment of those qualities in this relationship. Take a moment to think about how your partner sees you in this relationship and how that may be contributing to their ability to resolve this current conflict with you.

Card #7 represents relationship strengths.

You've drawn the Reversed Knight of Cups card. This means you're getting a reversed version of Sensitive energy, so it's manifesting as Temperamental and shows up looking like indulging in daydreams, moody, overly emotional. Even though you're currently having a conflict with your partner and you've got some obstacles to face, it's nice to know you've got some strengths in your relationship too. Let this strength theme simmer a bit, then see if you can flex it to move toward resolution with your partner.

Card #8 represents possible outcome.

You've drawn the Reversed King of Pentacles card. This means you're getting a reversed version of Business Leader energy, so it's manifesting as Unethical and shows up looking like corruption, lacking business acumen, ruthless, greedy. So here's the deal with the outcome: it's based on your current path. You have the choice to stay the course or to work for change. You may like this outcome, or you may not. But remember, it's not set in stone. You and your partner have the power to resolve your conflict in whichever way suits you and hopefully you've gained some insight on how to do that together and with grace.

Card #6 represents relationship obstacles.

You've drawn the Hierophant which has a theme of Organizations and shows up in concepts like belief systems, group identification & rules, seeking education. You're going to have relationship obstacles. It's best to know what you're dealing with. Sometimes the obstacles indicated here clear, but other times you'll need to look beneath the surface of the theme to find a true source. Do you and your partner both see this theme as an obstacle? If not, that might be your first clue in moving towards resolution.

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