Card #3 represents the relationship itself.
You've drawn King of Swords in reversed orientation as the the relationship itself.
Since you've drawn the reversed version, you're getting a reversed version of Ethical Leader energy, so it's manifesting as Overbearing and shows up looking like cruel, merciless, incompetent, illegal actions.
Take a moment to think about this theme and if that's a theme you're intending to foster in this relationship. Keep in mind, this is an interpretation of your relationship as it currently stands. You have the power to to continue on this path or to make changes and change your current path together.