#1
Conflict Resolution Spread
Get insight into a situation that you just can't seem to resolve. Focus on a conflict with a specific person or organization, then click to turn over each card.
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Card #1 represents your role in this conflict.
You've drawn the Wheel of Fortune which has a theme of Destiny and shows up in concepts like turning point, life cycles, awakening, big picture vision. So that's what you're bringing to the table. Take a moment to think about these qualities and the ways in they're working for or against you in resolving this conflict.
#2
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Card #2 represents your view of them.
You've drawn the Reversed Ace of Wands card. This means you're getting a reversed version of Creative Strength energy, so it's manifesting as False Starts and shows up looking like lacking initiative, bad timing, setbacks, obstacles. If you take off your conflict goggles for a moment, do you still think this is a fair assessment of who thay actually are? Take a moment to think about ways in which your feelings about these concepts are contributing to the resolution or the continuation of the conflict.
#3
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Card #3 represents their view of themselves.
You've drawn the Reversed Six of Wands card. This means you're getting a reversed version of Victory energy, so it's manifesting as Demotion and shows up looking like betrayal, fall from favor, being taken advantage of. We rarely see ourselves the same way others do -- especially when we're in conflict -- and that's part of what's going on here. Take a moment to think about how your partner's view of themself is influencing the resolution or the continuation of the conflict.
#4
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Card #4 represents what they mean to you.
You've drawn the Reversed Page of Swords card. This means you're getting a reversed version of Revitalization energy, so it's manifesting as Braggart and shows up looking like immaturity, communication errors, being all talk. Take a moment to think about how this larger view of their role in your relationship together will be important in helping you move towards resolving your current conflict.
#5
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Card #5 represents what you mean to them.
You've drawn the Reversed Three of Swords card. This means you're getting a reversed version of Grief energy, so it's manifesting as Healing and shows up looking like recovery, ending seclusion, releasing sorrow, forgiveness. Regardless of conflict, your partner is seeing you as an embodyment of those qualities in this relationship. Take a moment to think about how your partner sees you in this relationship and how that may be contributing to their ability to resolve this current conflict with you.
#7
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Card #7 represents relationship strengths.
You've drawn the Five of Wands which has a theme of Conflict and shows up in concepts like battles, bickering, pettiness, discord, squabbles. Even though you're currently having a conflict with your partner and you've got some obstacles to face, it's nice to know you've got some strengths in your relationship too. Let this strength theme simmer a bit, then see if you can flex it to move toward resolution with your partner.
#8
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Card #8 represents possible outcome.
You've drawn the Reversed Tower card. This means you're getting a reversed version of Destruction energy, so it's manifesting as Precaution and shows up looking like fear and avoidance of change or disaster. So here's the deal with the outcome: it's based on your current path. You have the choice to stay the course or to work for change. You may like this outcome, or you may not. But remember, it's not set in stone. You and your partner have the power to resolve your conflict in whichever way suits you and hopefully you've gained some insight on how to do that together and with grace.
#6
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Card #6 represents relationship obstacles.
You've drawn the Reversed Queen of Pentacles card. This means you're getting a reversed version of Resourceful energy, so it's manifesting as Self-Centered and shows up looking like driven for money over relationships, work/home imbalance. You're going to have relationship obstacles. It's best to know what you're dealing with. Sometimes the obstacles indicated here clear, but other times you'll need to look beneath the surface of the theme to find a true source. Do you and your partner both see this theme as an obstacle? If not, that might be your first clue in moving towards resolution.