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Conflict Resolution Spread

Get insight into a situation that you just can't seem to resolve. Focus on a conflict with a specific person or organization, then click to turn over each card.

Card #1 represents your role in this conflict.

You've drawn Death as the your role in this conflict.

You've drawn this card upright which has a theme of Transformation and shows up in concepts like endings and beginnings, transition, shedding.

So that's what you're bringing to the table. Take a moment to think about these qualities and the ways in they're working for or against you in resolving this conflict.

Card #2 represents your view of them.

You've drawn Page of Swords in reversed orientation as the your view of them.

Since you've drawn the reversed version, you're getting a reversed version of Revitalization energy, so it's manifesting as Braggart and shows up looking like immaturity, communication errors, being all talk.

If you take off your conflict goggles for a moment, do you still think this is a fair assessment of who thay actually are? Take a moment to think about ways in which your feelings about these concepts are contributing to the resolution or the continuation of the conflict.

Eight of Pentacles in reversed orientation

Card #3 represents their view of themselves.

You've drawn Eight of Pentacles in reversed orientation as the their view of themselves.

Since you've drawn the reversed version, you're getting a reversed version of Education energy, so it's manifesting as Unambitious and shows up looking like unskilled, cutting corners, unreliable, unwilling to work.

We rarely see ourselves the same way others do -- especially when we're in conflict -- and that's part of what's going on here. Take a moment to think about how your partner's view of themself is influencing the resolution or the continuation of the conflict.

Card #4 represents what they mean to you.

You've drawn Nine of Cups in reversed orientation as the what they mean to you.

Since you've drawn the reversed version, you're getting a reversed version of Fulfillment energy, so it's manifesting as Entitlement and shows up looking like smugness, greed, taking for granted, too indulgent.

Take a moment to think about how this larger view of their role in your relationship together will be important in helping you move towards resolving your current conflict.

Card #5 represents what you mean to them.

You've drawn Two of Cups as the what you mean to them.

You've drawn this card upright which has a theme of Partnership and shows up in concepts like respect, happiness, connection, trust, attraction.

Regardless of conflict, your partner is seeing you as an embodyment of those qualities in this relationship. Take a moment to think about how your partner sees you in this relationship and how that may be contributing to their ability to resolve this current conflict with you.

Ten of Pentacles in reversed orientation

Card #7 represents relationship strengths.

You've drawn Ten of Pentacles in reversed orientation as the relationship strengths.

Since you've drawn the reversed version, you're getting a reversed version of Legacy energy, so it's manifesting as Loss and shows up looking like loss of community/family, monetary loss, absorbed in material.

Even though you're currently having a conflict with your partner and you've got some obstacles to face, it's nice to know you've got some strengths in your relationship too. Let this strength theme simmer a bit, then see if you can flex it to move toward resolution with your partner.

Knight of Pentacles in reversed orientation

Card #8 represents possible outcome.

You've drawn Knight of Pentacles in reversed orientation as the possible outcome.

Since you've drawn the reversed version, you're getting a reversed version of Thorough energy, so it's manifesting as Obsessive and shows up looking like stubborn, grinding, self-serving, resisting compromise.

So here's the deal with the outcome: it's based on your current path. You have the choice to stay the course or to work for change. You may like this outcome, or you may not. But remember, it's not set in stone. You and your partner have the power to resolve your conflict in whichever way suits you and hopefully you've gained some insight on how to do that together and with grace.

Card #6 represents relationship obstacles.

You've drawn King of Swords as the relationship obstacles.

You've drawn this card upright which has a theme of Ethical Leader and shows up in concepts like diplomacy, intellect, remaining objective, unbiased, analytical.

You're going to have relationship obstacles. It's best to know what you're dealing with. Sometimes the obstacles indicated here clear, but other times you'll need to look beneath the surface of the theme to find a true source. Do you and your partner both see this theme as an obstacle? If not, that might be your first clue in moving towards resolution.

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