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Conflict Resolution Spread

Get insight into a situation that you just can't seem to resolve. Focus on a conflict with a specific person or organization, then click to turn over each card.

Card #1 represents your role in this conflict.

You've drawn Strength in reversed orientation as the your role in this conflict.

Since you've drawn the reversed version, you're getting a reversed version of Fortitude energy, so it's manifesting as Weakness and shows up looking like self-doubt, egoism, lack of self-discipline, suppressed urges.

So that's what you're bringing to the table. Take a moment to think about these qualities and the ways in they're working for or against you in resolving this conflict.

Card #2 represents your view of them.

You've drawn Death in reversed orientation as the your view of them.

Since you've drawn the reversed version, you're getting a reversed version of Transformation energy, so it's manifesting as Stuck and shows up looking like depression, unable to move on or recover.

If you take off your conflict goggles for a moment, do you still think this is a fair assessment of who thay actually are? Take a moment to think about ways in which your feelings about these concepts are contributing to the resolution or the continuation of the conflict.

Card #3 represents their view of themselves.

You've drawn Eight of Swords as the their view of themselves.

You've drawn this card upright which has a theme of Restriction and shows up in concepts like lacking direction, powerless, trapped, limiting beliefs.

We rarely see ourselves the same way others do -- especially when we're in conflict -- and that's part of what's going on here. Take a moment to think about how your partner's view of themself is influencing the resolution or the continuation of the conflict.

Card #4 represents what they mean to you.

You've drawn Two of Cups in reversed orientation as the what they mean to you.

Since you've drawn the reversed version, you're getting a reversed version of Partnership energy, so it's manifesting as Arguments and shows up looking like petty quarrels, envy, miscommunication, jealousy, break-up.

Take a moment to think about how this larger view of their role in your relationship together will be important in helping you move towards resolving your current conflict.

Page of Pentacles in reversed orientation

Card #5 represents what you mean to them.

You've drawn Page of Pentacles in reversed orientation as the what you mean to them.

Since you've drawn the reversed version, you're getting a reversed version of Practicality energy, so it's manifesting as Bad News and shows up looking like unfulfilled promises, missed opportunities.

Regardless of conflict, your partner is seeing you as an embodyment of those qualities in this relationship. Take a moment to think about how your partner sees you in this relationship and how that may be contributing to their ability to resolve this current conflict with you.

Card #7 represents relationship strengths.

You've drawn The Tower as the relationship strengths.

You've drawn this card upright which has a theme of Destruction and shows up in concepts like false securities, upheaval, sudden change, wake-up call.

Even though you're currently having a conflict with your partner and you've got some obstacles to face, it's nice to know you've got some strengths in your relationship too. Let this strength theme simmer a bit, then see if you can flex it to move toward resolution with your partner.

Card #8 represents possible outcome.

You've drawn The Hierophant in reversed orientation as the possible outcome.

Since you've drawn the reversed version, you're getting a reversed version of Organizations energy, so it's manifesting as Rebellion and shows up looking like restriction, unethical, challenging authority.

So here's the deal with the outcome: it's based on your current path. You have the choice to stay the course or to work for change. You may like this outcome, or you may not. But remember, it's not set in stone. You and your partner have the power to resolve your conflict in whichever way suits you and hopefully you've gained some insight on how to do that together and with grace.

Card #6 represents relationship obstacles.

You've drawn Six of Wands as the relationship obstacles.

You've drawn this card upright which has a theme of Victory and shows up in concepts like success within reach, personal triumph, praise, recognition.

You're going to have relationship obstacles. It's best to know what you're dealing with. Sometimes the obstacles indicated here clear, but other times you'll need to look beneath the surface of the theme to find a true source. Do you and your partner both see this theme as an obstacle? If not, that might be your first clue in moving towards resolution.

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