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Conflict Resolution Spread

Get insight into a situation that you just can't seem to resolve. Focus on a conflict with a specific person or organization, then click to turn over each card.

Card #1 represents your role in this conflict.

You've drawn Six of Cups as the your role in this conflict.

You've drawn this card upright which has a theme of Nostalgia and shows up in concepts like happy memories, people from past, inner child.

So that's what you're bringing to the table. Take a moment to think about these qualities and the ways in they're working for or against you in resolving this conflict.

Card #2 represents your view of them.

You've drawn The Moon as the your view of them.

You've drawn this card upright which has a theme of Illusion and shows up in concepts like intuition, fear, bewilderment, others deceiving you.

If you take off your conflict goggles for a moment, do you still think this is a fair assessment of who thay actually are? Take a moment to think about ways in which your feelings about these concepts are contributing to the resolution or the continuation of the conflict.

Nine of Pentacles in reversed orientation

Card #3 represents their view of themselves.

You've drawn Nine of Pentacles in reversed orientation as the their view of themselves.

Since you've drawn the reversed version, you're getting a reversed version of Luxury energy, so it's manifesting as Setbacks and shows up looking like feeling isolated, being taken advantage of, too focused on work.

We rarely see ourselves the same way others do -- especially when we're in conflict -- and that's part of what's going on here. Take a moment to think about how your partner's view of themself is influencing the resolution or the continuation of the conflict.

Card #4 represents what they mean to you.

You've drawn Five of Cups as the what they mean to you.

You've drawn this card upright which has a theme of Bereavement and shows up in concepts like loss, regret, living in past, let down, sadness, grief.

Take a moment to think about how this larger view of their role in your relationship together will be important in helping you move towards resolving your current conflict.

Card #5 represents what you mean to them.

You've drawn Eight of Wands in reversed orientation as the what you mean to them.

Since you've drawn the reversed version, you're getting a reversed version of Acceleration energy, so it's manifesting as Missteps and shows up looking like snap judgments, wasted efforts, delays.

Regardless of conflict, your partner is seeing you as an embodyment of those qualities in this relationship. Take a moment to think about how your partner sees you in this relationship and how that may be contributing to their ability to resolve this current conflict with you.

Card #7 represents relationship strengths.

You've drawn Page of Cups in reversed orientation as the relationship strengths.

Since you've drawn the reversed version, you're getting a reversed version of Creative Beginnings energy, so it's manifesting as Emotional and shows up looking like oversensitive youth, repressed intuition, refusing good advice.

Even though you're currently having a conflict with your partner and you've got some obstacles to face, it's nice to know you've got some strengths in your relationship too. Let this strength theme simmer a bit, then see if you can flex it to move toward resolution with your partner.

Card #8 represents possible outcome.

You've drawn The Emperor as the possible outcome.

You've drawn this card upright which has a theme of Authority and shows up in concepts like father-figure, leadership, structure, regulations.

So here's the deal with the outcome: it's based on your current path. You have the choice to stay the course or to work for change. You may like this outcome, or you may not. But remember, it's not set in stone. You and your partner have the power to resolve your conflict in whichever way suits you and hopefully you've gained some insight on how to do that together and with grace.

Card #6 represents relationship obstacles.

You've drawn Seven of Swords in reversed orientation as the relationship obstacles.

Since you've drawn the reversed version, you're getting a reversed version of Stealth energy, so it's manifesting as Reveal and shows up looking like honesty, openness, getting caught, stolen items returned.

You're going to have relationship obstacles. It's best to know what you're dealing with. Sometimes the obstacles indicated here clear, but other times you'll need to look beneath the surface of the theme to find a true source. Do you and your partner both see this theme as an obstacle? If not, that might be your first clue in moving towards resolution.

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