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Conflict Resolution Spread

Get insight into a situation that you just can't seem to resolve. Focus on a conflict with a specific person or organization, then click to turn over each card.

Card #1 represents your role in this conflict.

You've drawn Wheel of Fortune as the your role in this conflict.

You've drawn this card upright which has a theme of Destiny and shows up in concepts like turning point, life cycles, awakening, big picture vision.

So that's what you're bringing to the table. Take a moment to think about these qualities and the ways in they're working for or against you in resolving this conflict.

Card #2 represents your view of them.

You've drawn Four of Wands in reversed orientation as the your view of them.

Since you've drawn the reversed version, you're getting a reversed version of Harmony energy, so it's manifesting as Ungrateful and shows up looking like communication breakdown, stagnant, excess celebration.

If you take off your conflict goggles for a moment, do you still think this is a fair assessment of who thay actually are? Take a moment to think about ways in which your feelings about these concepts are contributing to the resolution or the continuation of the conflict.

Card #3 represents their view of themselves.

You've drawn Two of Wands as the their view of themselves.

You've drawn this card upright which has a theme of Planning and shows up in concepts like personal power, strength, success, support, originality.

We rarely see ourselves the same way others do -- especially when we're in conflict -- and that's part of what's going on here. Take a moment to think about how your partner's view of themself is influencing the resolution or the continuation of the conflict.

Card #4 represents what they mean to you.

You've drawn The Lovers in reversed orientation as the what they mean to you.

Since you've drawn the reversed version, you're getting a reversed version of Relationships energy, so it's manifesting as Disharmony and shows up looking like imbalance, struggle, loneliness, miscommunication.

Take a moment to think about how this larger view of their role in your relationship together will be important in helping you move towards resolving your current conflict.

Card #5 represents what you mean to them.

You've drawn The Star in reversed orientation as the what you mean to them.

Since you've drawn the reversed version, you're getting a reversed version of Hope energy, so it's manifesting as Hopeless and shows up looking like despair, sabotaging, lacking creativity, troubled.

Regardless of conflict, your partner is seeing you as an embodyment of those qualities in this relationship. Take a moment to think about how your partner sees you in this relationship and how that may be contributing to their ability to resolve this current conflict with you.

Card #7 represents relationship strengths.

You've drawn The Chariot in reversed orientation as the relationship strengths.

Since you've drawn the reversed version, you're getting a reversed version of Direction energy, so it's manifesting as Domineering and shows up looking like accidents, delay, lack of focus, aggression.

Even though you're currently having a conflict with your partner and you've got some obstacles to face, it's nice to know you've got some strengths in your relationship too. Let this strength theme simmer a bit, then see if you can flex it to move toward resolution with your partner.

Card #8 represents possible outcome.

You've drawn Seven of Swords as the possible outcome.

You've drawn this card upright which has a theme of Stealth and shows up in concepts like theft, loss, sneaking away, underhand, cunning, taking.

So here's the deal with the outcome: it's based on your current path. You have the choice to stay the course or to work for change. You may like this outcome, or you may not. But remember, it's not set in stone. You and your partner have the power to resolve your conflict in whichever way suits you and hopefully you've gained some insight on how to do that together and with grace.

Card #6 represents relationship obstacles.

You've drawn Seven of Cups as the relationship obstacles.

You've drawn this card upright which has a theme of Day Dreaming and shows up in concepts like choices, decisions, wishful thinking, fantasy.

You're going to have relationship obstacles. It's best to know what you're dealing with. Sometimes the obstacles indicated here clear, but other times you'll need to look beneath the surface of the theme to find a true source. Do you and your partner both see this theme as an obstacle? If not, that might be your first clue in moving towards resolution.

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